She is supported by Deputy Title IX Coordinators Melany Hunt ([email protected], 626-395-4231) Ofelia Velazquez-Perez ( Title IX is reflected in three Caltech policies.They include the policy on Nondiscrimination and Equal Opportunity, Unlawful Harassment and Sexual Violence. (https://titleix.caltech.edu/Pol Proc) A student can report a Title IX violation to any of the people listed below.Dear Auntie, I have a question concerning the ethics of crushing on a TA.
I think he liked the attention.” Eventually, the TA asked her if she would write a recommendation letter for an award he was applying to, and if she wanted to be his assistant over the summer for his research.Tread carefully, and consider the repercussions before you let him know that you’re interested. It’s better to be cautious than to be a notch on his bed post.– Don’t show up at campus parties together or have dates at the campus pub or restaurant. – While it is often a joke among friends to hook up with or date professors and teaching assistants, if you have a genuine connection with a teacher you should seriously consider the pros and cons of the relationship.Many attractive college guys are fun-loving jokesters, athletic jocks, or ambitious future CEOs.Others are goofballs, former-best-friend crushes or maybe closet nerds. It’s been proven that girls mature much faster than their male counterparts.“He was also a bit older and his maturity was really refreshing (since in high school I was in a relationship with a guy who was going nowhere and was so immature).” Avery started wearing V-neck shirts and makeup (which she never wore normally) to attract her TA’s attention.She started going to his office hours to ask questions about his research.While you may learn to tolerate the difference in maturity in middle school (the issue of towering over many of the boys at dances is certainly not fun but usually is amended by high school), once you get to college it’s understandably a bit harder to deal with.Just when you can’t take another spilled drink, rowdy shirtless dance, or marathon video game session, another attractive option might presents itself.Before a decision is made, the Title IX coordinator (or a deputy coordinator) will evaluate requests for confidentiality and will talk with you about it.Tous les célibataires s’entendent: rencontrer quelqu’un, c’est loin d’être évident!